Hi y’all! How are you doing? I really really hope y’all are doing okay.. If not, I pray that God will visit you and improve your situation. Amen! As for me, I am just living; nothing too much going on. Although, it’s being a roller coaster of emotions, I am still my very positive self because I know that God has my back:) Let’s get into today’s post.
Not gonna lie, this post is a product of my thoughts; just think of it like I am thinking out loud.
So, I was thinking about love; I am always thinking about this because it is just so intriguing and interesting to examine this deep connection between people. Like, love brings people together, it connects people, and it kinda changes how people act; it’s all so fascinating and it’s something I have been studying and trying to understand. I still don’t get the mushy mushy part but at least I am getting some understanding about the whole concept of love;)
Anyway, I was thinking about how sometimes we think that someone truly loves us but it’s not “true love”, it just falls under a category or type of love. Alright, let me really explain it. I actually think that love has categories; like, someone can be truly in love with you for you, someone can be in love with you because the things you do fascinate them, someone can be in love with you because you fulfill their fantasies, someone can be in love with you because you seem like the type of person they want to be themselves. All I am saying is that sometimes you mistake other types of feelings and emotions for true love; I mean this feelings and emotions can fall under love but they are not true, real love itself.
For real, I feel like people don’t think about this enough. Sometimes, we like someone and this blinds our eyes, we then think that they truly love us for us but that’s not the case, they probably just love you for the things you do or the type of person you are.
I really feel like people should love one another for who they are and not because you are hung up on something about them. Trust me, I understand that it’s human nature and it will probably still happen but just be very careful and mindful. Also, sometimes, we need to be awake and really think and also be very careful not to pour out all your love on somebody who is not truly in love with you(I know this is probably easier said than done😅). Just be very careful anyway because heartbreak is not something nice…
I am speaking about this because this is something that I have been through a lot. Like, sometimes I think I really like someone but then I figure out that I don’t like them for who they are, I just like something about them or the type of character they project out to the world. Yes really!!
Realizing what type of love you have for someone is really important because no one really deserves to be led on or be used.Bee
So, I think it’s really important to know how you truly feel about someone before you start broadcasting it(your feelings) to that person. I mean, it’s better to be cautious and not just get into a relationship that then falls apart because of the type of love or the category in fact, y’all have for each other.
Anyway, like I said earlier, this is just a product of my thoughts. Y’all might not agree and that’s completely fine:) In fact, I want to know what y’all think, so please leave a comment with your thoughts and opinions.
Before I go, I just want y’all to know that my first book review will be posted very soon. I have been working on it for a very long time but it’s finally going to be out very very soon, thank God). Thank you for your patience. Bye y’all.
Love you all always(p.s. my love for y’all is true and pure love;))
Okay, I couldn’t just leave y’all without a picture. This picture seemed so relaxing. Bye now!