You are (really) never alone.

hi! How are you?! I really hope you are doing okay! If you are not, please don’t stop trusting in God and keep being patient. All will be well very soon:))

How am I doing? I am alright actually. I have been busy with school and extra-curriculars as always. I am just very glad that you are here reading this blogpost today;)

Let’s move on to today’s pretty interesting post..

A lot of times, maybe very frequently, there is thought that sneaks its way into our heads and it sometimes lingers in there for a while.

And that thought is, “I am (so) alone”.

“I have no one with me”. “I am all by myself in this world”. “No one cares for me”. “No one cares about me”. “I am just so alone”.

All different variations of the “I am so alone” thought just come to our heads especially at times when we are not feeling our best. At times when things aren’t just going well or maybe it could come when everything is going so well and all of a sudden, you are pushed into this deep dark hole trying to confront this thought and trying to fight it.

Whatever the case, however it comes to you, I just want to tell you that you really are never alone. It might seem so hard to believe but it is true. I mean there other 6,999,999,999 people around you, so yeah, technically you are not alone in this world. Right?(this is all jokes by the way).

Being on TikTok for a while has also helped me to understand that I am really, and also you, are not alone. Let me explain myself. So, you are going through something and you feel like you are the only one going through this thing or that you wouldn’t survive from this problem or whatever but then, you go on TikTok and you see someone else going through that same exact thing you are going through. This helps you to see and understand that in that particular problem you are never alone and this really applies to so many other things.

Like they always say, “there’s nothing you are going through in this life that someone else hasn’t gone through” and another one, “there’s nothing new under the sun”. So yeah in regards to this, whatever you are going through or thinking to yourself, you are not alone and never alone because someone has either gone through it or someone is going through it right now like you are.

It’s an interesting thought or perspective but that’s not the point of this post though.

I want to tell you that you are never alone because you always have Christ with you. You always have him by your side even when things look and feel extremely bad.

It is so easy to forget that we have God when things are not going well for us and when we are in some type of problem or issue. It is so easy to forget to keep trusting God when things aren’t looking good. It is so easy to forget that you are not alone in this walk; in these bad times, in these challenging times.

There’s one Bible verse that comes to mind while writing this. It is Deuteronomy 31 vs 6. It says,” Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” Let’s break it down.

Be strong and courageous: Do not fear, do not worry, do not tremble, do not be scared, be bold, be strong..

Do not be afraid or terrified because of them: What is that problem or that issue or that thing that’s causing you to worry? Don’t be afraid because of them! Don’t let them scare you!

For the Lord your God goes with you: The Lord your God is with you, He stays with you, He is going with you, He is by your side, He is holding your hand!

He will never leave you nor forsake you: “Never” is the key word here! God will NEVER leave you. He will NEVER abandon you. He will NEVER leave you to be alone all by yourself. He is with you and He sticks with you.

This Bible verse is a powerful one. From it and so many other verses in the Bible, you see and understand that you are really never alone because God is always by your side. He never leaves you to be by yourself.

So, there is no need to fret and fight yourself and let yourself be dragged down a deep dark hole struggling with these “You are alone” thoughts because you are not and never will be. You are God’s child and His beloved and He loves you deeply, so you have to always trust that you are never alone, no matter the situation.

So say to yourself everyday and repeat to yourself everyday that you are not alone. That you will always have God by your side. That no matter what you’re going through, you have God by your side. Say it and say it to yourself and let yourself believe it because it’s true!


So, that’s it for this post. Thank you for reading! I pray that God will help us to see and realize that we are never alone in Jesus name. Amen!

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-This picture just looked so fascinating and I wanted to share with y’all.

byee people!

*don’t forget that God loves you forever and that no matter how much this thought comes into your head, you are never alone and you are never going to be alone.

The importance of consulting God in decision making

Hi y’all! How are you doing? I really hope everything is going well with y’all. For me, I have been doing a lot of thinking; trying to understand a lot of things and get things in order. I have also been focused on school, trying to do amazingly well this school year. So, I am doing pretty fine, all thanks to God. Anyway, let’s get into today’s post.

Today’s topic is something I’ve been thinking about a lot. God has also shown me a couple of things regarding this topic. I’m pretty excited to share my thoughts and all the things shared with me with you guys. So, just keep reading!

We all know that decision making is an important part of life. Every action we take in this life is the result of a decision we make. The decisions we make determine how our lives will turn out. They determine whether we would achieve our God given purpose in this life or not. In all, decision making is a pretty big deal.

Due to the importance of decision making, it’s essential to consult God before making any decisions. God knows everything; He knows what’s going to happen before it really happens, so it’s best to ask Him first before we do anything. It’s only God that would help you to make the right decisions and do what’s right for you.

The Bible in Jeremiah 1 vs 5, says that God knew us even before we entered our mother’s womb. He knows what our lives will look like. He knows which steps are the right ones for us to take. He knows which decisions will make us and the ones that will destroy us. There’s a reason why God is called Omniscience God! It’s because He knows everything. So, why are we not talking to Him? Why are we not going to Him first? Why are we not consulting Him first?

The first mistake a lot of us make before we even make decisions is not asking God first. Most of us seem to forget that we have God for us. God who is willing to help us at anytime. God who tells us in Matthew 7 vs 7 that we should ask and we shall receive. If we just ask Him for help, He’ll surely give it to us because a father doesn’t ignore His children. God loves us and He wants us to know it. He’s going to always be there for us and He wants us to know it. So what are you waiting for? Why aren’t you acknowledging your Helper?

In all, I just want y’all to realize that the first and most important thing before we make any decision is to ask God for help. It really doesn’t matter how little you think that decision is. It can be what you want to eat or what you should wear. Anything at all!! God doesn’t mind, so why are you scared and afraid? God is a loving God, so you don’t need to be scared or afraid to go to Him in prayer for all your needs and your questions.

I just pray that God helps us to see that He truly wants us to come to Him and ask Him for help in Jesus name. Amen! That’s all for today y’all. If you have any question or thoughts about today’s post, you can just drop a comment. Bye y’all!

Please obey this verse. Don’t depend only on your own understanding, ask God for help and trust Him to help you to do the right thing.

What I learned about Bible study(the Word of God)

Hi people! How is it going? I really hope it’s going great for y’all. For me, this week went by so freaking fast but thank God, I was able to do everything I wanted to do. I have not really been up to anything like that; I have been listening to music, watching YouTube and Netflix and I have also been working on getting closer to God😊😊. Anyway, I really hope and pray you learn something from today’s blog post. Let’s go on!

For a really long time, I struggled with Bible study. I never knew what to read in the Bible or where to start. I used to use devotionals on the Bible app on my phone but it was just not working for me. I felt really bad about this because I am always telling people to do Bible study and all but I was not doing it. I felt like a liar, kind of. It felt like I was cheating people in a way. I was just in a bad place. Anyway, things changed or should I say, things have changed. God saw I was struggling and He spoke to me and He told me what to do.

Let me just say that God is so great! God asked me why I did not ask Him for help if I was struggling so much. This really just turned things around because it made me realize how a lot of us are like that. When we are in trouble or in the midst of a problem, we forget that we have God. We get carried away by our problems and we do not remember to ask God for help. Please don’t let this be the case for you.

So, I asked God for help and He helped me. He told me that why don’t I just study my Bible directly and do away with devotionals if they are not helping. God just told me how to solve my problem but I was still struggling. I was still struggling with where to start reading from in the Bible. I asked God for help again and He told me to go to another Christian for help. I went to @lanumilois on Instagram and asked her about where I should start reading from in the Bible.

Going to her really opened my eyes. She made me understand that I was going about the whole thing the wrong way. At this point let me say that, my goal was and had been to read every book in the Bible. While this is not a bad thing, Sister Lanumi helped me to understand that this should not be my goal. My goal and every other Christian’s goal should be to know God through his Word according to Sister Lanumi.

In all, what I learned is that we should not be too focused on reading the whole Bible because if we do that, we would not focus on what the Bible truly is for. The Bible contains the Word of God and the Word of God is God Himself according to John chapter 1, verse 1-5. Our focus when studying the Bible should be to know God. To understand who He is and understand everything about Him. The Bible has so much things that we need to know about as Christians, hence why it is very important to read the Bible. Also, you should not just read your Bible because you are being forced to, be intentional about it, knowing that as you are reading , you will be discovering more things about the Word and the purpose of the Word.

On the question of where to start reading from in the Bible. That is why we have the Holy Spirit, ask the Holy spirit for help. The Holy Spirit was sent by God to help you. Ask Him for guidance and He will answer you. Also, pray to God and communicate with Him. Talk to Him about whatever questions you have and He will surely answer you. God should always be the first person you go to before you start worrying about anything. I pray that God helps us to see that He is always here for us in Jesus name. Amen!

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I am going to leave y’all with a picture of the Bible today because Bible study is very very important and you need to do it often as well. I pray God helps us in Jesus name. Amen! Bye:)

..On the issue of rape and sexual immoralities..

Hello! How are you doing? How is life going? I really really hope everything is going great with y’all and if not, don’t stop trusting in God. For me, I have just been alright(nothing much). Also, I have really been trying to maintain my healthy lifestyle because the temptation has been A LOT! I also finished re-reading one of my favorite books, which is “Americanah” by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and I just cannot wait to write a blogpost about it:) Anyway, let’s get on to the matter at hand.

If you follow me on Instagram, then you already know what today’s blogpost is about. I talked about it briefly in the caption of my latest insta post. So, rape is the matter at hand. I have been thinking about rape a lot in the past few days, trying to make sense of it and understand why it even happens. In all my thoughts, man I have been so angry and exhausted because I just do not understand how some people do not see and understand that it is extremely wrong to force someone to have sex with you.

Like just thinking about the little kids especially, who get raped almost on a daily basis. These kids are just kids, they are JUST KIDS. It is so freaking inhumane to do this to them and literally anybody else. What do these kids even know and due to a person’s stupidity, they have to go through freaking trauma from a really young age. Honestly, I am so angry that I do not even know how to put it into words. I just pray that God takes charge over this issue because it is really really infuriating and heartbreaking.

What is the other explanation for rape, if not an insane addiction to sex that you would do anything to get it and also lack of self-control. There’s so much more to life than sex. Sex is not everything! Like just imagine, you are trying to pleasure yourself at the expense of someone else’s health/life. It is very very wicked and painful. It is literally five minutes of pleasure for you and a lifetime of pain for the victim. Raping someone is intentionally hurting them, can’t you see it? Just put yourself in that person’s shoes, do you see it now? Or imagine the same was done to your girlfriend/boyfriend or child, just freaking imagine!!

It is just really really sad because people don’t even feel safe going out anymore. People have to buy different weapons for self defense and protection. That has become the new normal and it is not supposed to be like that! Humans are supposed to protect each other, to help each other but it is the exact opposite. It is just like people do not care about other people’s feelings and emotions anymore. People don’t really care about being humane anymore and it is heartbreaking.

Also, do we all know what God says about sex?? Let me brief y’all real quick. 1 Thessalonians chapter 4 vs 3-5 says, “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God..” According to this Bible verse, we all should know how to control our bodies..this greatly speaks to people who force other people to have sex with them.. Learn how to control yourself in holiness, do not go after lust like people who do not know God. God doesn’t want any kind of sexual immorality; while sex is good according to God, God doesn’t want it to be impure. Sexual immorality is sin and sin is filth-this is against God!

This is why it is also really important to give your life to God. Become born again, surrender your life to Christ, ask for the Holy Spirit and start to live a Christ-like life. If not, you would be doing things that you are not supposed to do. Things that are against the Bible and things that are just plainly WRONG! With God in your life and also with the Holy spirit, you receive guidance. You receive knowledge and you gain understanding. You are able to flee/abstain from every sexual immorality with the help of God. I pray that God guides our hearts, opens our eyes, and help us to understand what is right and what is wrong in Jesus name. Amen!

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This is from God to y’all, by the way! Have a great rest of the week. Bye people!

Also, don’t be scared or shy to drop a comment about anything relating to this post or any question you have. Please always remember that God loves you!

Why is trusting God so important?

Hello. Good morning/Good afternoon/Good evening/Good night(Just go with whichever works for you) I hope you have all had a nice week so far. If you did not have a really nice week, do not worry, there are better days coming for you and just trust that God is in charge and know that He didn’t forget you. Anyway, let’s get into today’s topic. Yayy!!(It felt so weird typing this because it felt like I was a cheerleader holding a pompom-I already told y’all that i have a weird sense of humor) Just keep reading:)

What exactly is Trust?

So, according to Google, “trusting someone means that you think they are reliable, you have confidence in them and you feel safe with them physically and emotionally”. A very simple definition of trust is having firm belief in someone or something. When you trust someone, you are able to rely on them for literally everything, and you have so much confidence in them. You do not doubt them at all because of the very very firm and strong belief you have in them. Also, as seen in the definition at the beginning, when you trust someone, you feel very safe with them because you know that no matter what, they are your person and they will take care of you. To be honest, it is really hard to trust people these days because everyone has their own character and behavior but they are still some pretty trustworthy people out there.

What does the Bible say about Trust?

Just in case you are not aware of what the Bible is, the Bible is a Holy book for Christians. Anyway, in the Bible, there are so many places where trusting God is mentioned and the Bible also mentions what we get from trusting God(ps..when something is mentioned severally in the Bible, it means that it’s very important..) I am just going to choose two Bible verses that talk about trust and then explain to y’all. The first Bible verse is

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord,
whose confidence is in him.
They will be like a tree planted by the water
that sends out its roots by the stream.
It does not fear when heat comes;
its leaves are always green.
It has no worries in a year of drought
and never fails to bear fruit.” Jeremiah 17 vs 7-8(NIV)
. This bible verse emphasizes on what happens to people who trust in God. Trusting in God brings you a lot of blessings and it puts you in a good place, meaning that you do not worry about anything. When you rely on God and have confidence in what He is able to do, then you are secured for life. You literally have nothing to worry about because you already know that God has your back.

The second Bible verse is Isiah 26 vs 3(NLT)-

“You will keep in perfect peace
    all who trust in you,
    all whose thoughts are fixed on you!”
This verse speaks on peace. It tells us that if we trust in God, He is going to bring peace into our lives. In case y’all do not understand, a peaceful mind and life is what everybody wants and is hoping for. You get that peace just by trusting in God and relying on God. You get peace of mind/ a peaceful life by having confidence in God and all His promises according to the Bible. When you have peace, you do not worry about anything, everything is going well for you and you have a great life, all these you get by putting your trust in Jesus Christ!

What I have noticed is that even for a lot of people who say they are Christians, they still do not have trust in God. They still doubt God’s powers whenever they are going through something or need something. They still do not have confidence in God and His being. A lot of people do not know this but the problem of a lot of Christians is having trust in God. A lot of people pray without trust in God and they expect their prayers to be answered when they do not have firm belief in God and are veryyyyy doubtful about God answering their prayers. How can you be doubtful about God and then ask Him for something in prayer?? I am very sure we do not ask our friends or anybody for something when we do not know or are not sure that they will do it. We only go to people we rely on to do things for us, DO THAT WITH GOD!!

In short, we all need to do better with trusting God. The thing is that God sees everything that is happening to you, He sees everything you are going through, He just wants to see that you believe that He knows about your situation. He just wants to see how much confident you are about Him coming through for you and helping you out. Trusting in God is very very important and that is what God needs from you. We all need to stop expecting things from God when we do not even have firm belief in Him, His powers, and His promises. Just stop doubting God and put full trust in Him.*drops mic* Bye🤗🤗

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I am leaving y’all with this picture. I pray y’all have an amazing week ahead!